Waiting way too long to invite her for the date. This date is going to be stress-free and fun.” “He makes me laugh and is so easy to talk to. She needs to be reminded of the initial spark she felt for you and why she gave you her number. A girl is nervous about things not going so well or being awkward. Why? Because meeting up with a new guy can be stressful. This ensures the highest chance of getting a yes. The best time to suggest a date is right after you receive a happy response, laugh, or emoticon. Going for the date before you’ve gotten a positive response. “I have tennis practice tonight, but I don’t want to go, it’s lame.” If it’s lame, then why the hell are you doing it in the first place?Īnd if you find yourself always bored or miserable with what you’re doing, maybe it’s time to pick up a new hobby. And if you can’t even enjoy your own day, how can she expect you to show her an awesome experience?Ĭonversely, when you do have plans, don’t bash them. Saying how uninteresting your day is won’t get her excited to hang out with you. You’re admitting you have nothing engaging happening in your life. Talking about how bored you are, that you have nothing to do, or downplaying your interests. Do they make you feel warm? Are you smiling at them? Or are they neutral and flat? Do they only require an emotionless, one word answer?įor a detailed breakdown of an emotionally engaging text conversation, see my article here. Read over your statements and questions as if you were her. You don’t have to be over the top, but always go back to this… The overall tone should be fun, flirtatious, playful, or just downright silly. She doesn’t want to go back and forth about her or your schoolwork, job schedule, or stresses unless you can make light of them. A girl wants to pick up her phone and smile or laugh. I’m always lighthearted over text with new women. Avoid dry, mundane, or purely factual exchanges. It should be a fun way to harmlessly flirt and banter. Texting is a poor way to get to know someone - that’s what the real world is for. What’s your favorite type of live music?” “I’m meeting an old friend and heading to a metal show. Is the nap pertinent? Do you really need the timestamps? Is John being in the military relevant right now? Do you need to explain that you’re hanging out? Does the location of the show make a difference? Or the fact that it’s going to be awesome - that’s hopefully implied by you investing your time there. We’ll probably hang out for a little and then we’re going to watch a metal show at the DCU center in Worcester - it’s going to be awesome.” Then around 5 I’m going to meet up with my friend John who’s back from the military. Say she asks you what your plans are for the night. Pare down your texts to the core message and remove all filler. Unless you can make a joke from it or use it to ask her a question about herself - save it for the date. She probably doesn’t care about a play-by-play of your day. If you don’t want a girl to play games with you, you shouldn’t be playing games with her. Women will often pull away to protect themselves and act distant as well. By delaying, you’re only going to frustrate her or make her feel like you’re uninterested - putting her on the defensive. Women want men who are unashamed of what they want. But, not responding for half a day because you think it’ll make you look cool is desperate. Replying in a normal timeframe only comes off desperate when you’re flooding her with consecutive unanswered messages. If you’re really taking that long to respond, are you…Īrtificially waiting to respond. It comes off awkward and like you need to make sure she likes you. You barely know each other and you aren’t obligated to explain yourself. Stop saying sorry for taking time to text back - you did nothing wrong. Related video (don’t forget to subscribe!) Lucky for you, I’ve been taking notes from every texting e-mail I receive to decipher the common pitfalls that prevent men from meeting up with women. And as many men come to realize, that’s easier said than done. A number may be a green light, but you still have to get her on a date. There’s an immense joy in knowing you now have an open line of communication. Hoping that I would be able to write some shorter one-shots apart from my ongoing stories, requests and prompts are all welcomed if you have one.Few moments have single men more excited then getting a girl’s number.
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